Monday, February 16, 2026

No More Spa Days at Skoog Farm

It's been a rough 24 hours. This morning Rebel was put down and Buddy was moved to my friend Andrea's farm so he can be with other horses.  I spent most of last night in the barn and by this morning, before 6am, I knew that I had to call the vet and make arrangements.  Jenny and Scott were here for support and Andrea arrived with a trailer to collect Buddy and take him to her farm.  This woman has been here for every horse problem I have ever had and I am so grateful.  The vet arrived at 10, the trailer was here by 10:15, Rebel was put down by 10:30 and we made sure Buddy was able to see him before leaving the farm.  I sent him off with all kinds of blankets, supplements, hay and more.  Rebel was picked up by 11:15 and I could not watch that part.  Have been crying all day, but know it was the right thing to do.

5:45am

Buddy knew something was up.
I put out a post on FB and spent the afternoon reading so many thoughtful messages....crying the whole time.  As if that was not enough, a beautiful bouquet arrived....
with this message from our neighbors.  That finished me off.

I will never forget this duo....loved them both so much.
So glad Rebel came into my life.
Tonight I did not have to do chores....and tomorrow I don't have to get up a 6.  It's so empty out there after taking care of horses for 46 years.  This will be life changing for me.
Night all.

PS
Alice and I just had a good long cry and will be taking Spa Day out to Glen Darrach Farm to give Buddy some extra attention.





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13 comments:

  1. AnonymousFebruary 16, 2026 at 8:04 PM

    Oh Lori my heart breaks for you. It’s so sad to lose such a part of your life. I am so sorry. I have always had much respect for the loving care you’ve given your pets. There’s a special place in Heaven for you. Kathy

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  2. CharlotteFebruary 16, 2026 at 10:17 PM

    I am so truly sorry for your loss of a beautiful lovely creation. You gave love and it was well received. Remember the happy memories and hold on to them ❤️😢💔

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  3. CharlotteFebruary 16, 2026 at 10:24 PM

    I will be 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 for you and your family.

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  4. CindyPFebruary 16, 2026 at 11:33 PM

    There are no words for the deep losses like this...you loved fiercely and you cared for them with your heart and soul. And at the end, you made a heart wrenching but humane decision to spare him further discomfort. My deepest condolences. CindyP

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  5. MarcyFebruary 17, 2026 at 12:38 AM

    I am so very sorry to hear this sad news. You gave Rebel many years of loving care. We will all miss him. This is a major life change for you too. I will keep positive thoughts in my heart for you. Please keep sharing. I feel like you are family. Hugs.

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  6. Nancy JFebruary 17, 2026 at 1:26 AM

    Rebel and Buddy, both leaving the largest gap in your life and your heart. I trust memories will be with you every moment .Accept every word from others, caring and loving, as they feel your immense sorrow like no other. XXXX

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  7. Val EwingFebruary 17, 2026 at 6:33 AM

    So sorry. One of the hardest things will be trying to fill that void of chores too.
    I'm still not over the loss of any of my animals. Your heart will be full of love for Rebel forever.

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  8. DreamingFebruary 17, 2026 at 9:15 AM

    I am crying along with you. I didn't expect this. I am so, so, sorry. Hugs and more hugs. I really don't know what to say :-(

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  9. auroraFebruary 17, 2026 at 9:25 AM

    My heart goes out to you, with water filled eyes. Glad to read you will be continuing spa days, albeit differently.

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  10. AnonymousFebruary 17, 2026 at 9:59 AM

    I am so very sorry for you.

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  11. lilysgrannieFebruary 17, 2026 at 10:30 AM

    Oh Lori, I so sorry to hear this news.

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  12. SandraFebruary 17, 2026 at 10:47 AM

    Sorry doesn't seem to say enough. It's absolutely heart wrenching and I know your heart is broken.

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  13. Lori SkoogFebruary 17, 2026 at 7:03 PM

    Thanks to all of you for sharing my grief. Your comments mean so much.

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